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I was confused. I thought, is my outgoing personality — which was attractive to them in the beginning — an obstacle to developing a stable relationship? I soon found out that I was not. A bunch of my girlfriends had similar worries when dating South Korean men. Some guys I knew loved hanging out with girls whom they called cool and funny — for example, girls who could drink two bottles of soju straight. But the same guys would get angry when their own girlfriends tried to drink more than one can of beer.

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You do latinas like korean guys see this contradictory expectation in female heroines of many K-dramas. She should be resilient but needs to be rescued when hardship arises. I thought it more a fantasy of men who craved unequal power relations with their girlfriends than a reality.

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I had already been working for several years by. We dated over a year.

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For a long time, he never commented on my social gatherings or asked me to see him as my sole source of emotional support. He gave me space — and he gave himself space.

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He was considerate, and accepting. Then a miracle happened.

I found myself voluntarily doing the so-called girlish actions, especially aegyo. I acted like a cute baby, even without trying. I was in love, of course, but what was happening to me?

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I had never been the problem; I was fine the way I was in my entirety, whether independent, outgoing or girlish, and I could express myself fully if I was given space, without judgment. Maybe I had been trying to prove something, in do latinas like korean guys society where people expect girls liek be quiet and submissive.

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Dating him, and others before that, has allowed me to see my self-contradictions and insecurities. I am self-conscious of my independence and womanhood. All the people I have met at school, at workplaces, even at home have influenced me.

I learned that I need to fight my own expectations for myself. I no longer categorize this activity as a guhs activity. I also recognize that so-called girlish behaviors like aegyo and naesung are not the do latinas like korean guys of women. Men can do these things just as well as women.

The revelations on my part may be uncomfortable for some South Koreans to bear. But I must thank the South Korean men I have dated — even those do latinas like korean guys have been so critical of me — for leading me down this path of self-discovery. And I lesbian curious sex forward to meeting the next man who will help me learn latnas about who I truly am.

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